In the summer of 2002, my parents came to visit us in Moscow, Russia. We had a great time showing them around the city and teaching them how to be spied on. They stayed in a spare room down the hall from ours and at one point, my mom said, OUT LOUD, "so, Bridget, the guy who's listening in on this room..." before I could shush her. Rule #1: They know we know they're listening, and we know it, but you never admit it.
worst night of sleep ever. It still couldn't take away the magic of that visit.
Then we continued traveling farther east into the heart of Slovakia. I had noticed a stark contrast even between Vienna and Bratislava. Now I noticed a similar deterioration between western Slovakia and eastern Slovakia. Our cousins in Humenne, not far from the Polish/Ukranian/Hungarian/Romanian border, were just as hospitable as the ones in Prievidza. But they lived in humbler surroundings. One of the older men's shirts was so worn that the accumulated years of sweat had burned holes through the armpits. I believe he referred to it jokingly as "air conditioning."
Visiting with these relatives was like getting a peek at an alternate reality for my life, one that could easily have come to pass if my great-great-whoever hadn't put in motion the plans for a member of the family to get themselves to America.
Dukla Pass, the site of one of the bloodiest and most heavily fought battles between Nazi Germany and the Soviet Union in WWII. There was a proper memorial and an artfully arranged monument of abandoned tanks. But there were also tanks abandoned randomly throughout the area, which gave the place an unsettled and melancholy feel. It was shortly after visiting Dukla Pass that we decided, "hey, why not visit Poland?"
It was a colossal lack of judgment on the part of all four of us. We waited in a line of vehicles to pass through the border for a while, then reached the guards' booth and handed over our passports. It was around this time that we started getting nervous. The official who accepted our passports took one look at them and immediately got on the phone. My mom suddenly remembered hearing about a friend of hers who took nine hours to get through this same crossing.
It must have all seemed very suspicious to the guard, but we immediately begged for our passports back. We said we'd changed our mind, that we didn't want to visit Poland, and was there anywhere we could turn around? Thankfully, we weren't too far into the process that we couldn't back out of it. We all breathed a sigh of relief when the guard let us turn around and get the heck out of almost-Poland.
I still have never been to Poland. I hope to visit someday. Just not on a spur-of-the-moment whim. I don't think that's quite the proper way to visit Poland. Do you?